{"id":7555,"date":"2016-08-19T15:32:35","date_gmt":"2016-08-19T15:32:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blogs\/?p=7555"},"modified":"2023-06-29T21:43:25","modified_gmt":"2023-06-29T21:43:25","slug":"principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Principles of dating a Trans-woman (Part 1)"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"su-dropcap su-dropcap-style-simple\" style=\"font-size:2.5em\">P<\/span>erhaps almost every trans woman has been dealing with the situation when the man she dates with making some awkward questions or saying some embarrassing things or just acting ignorant in certain way.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mar-top40\">Perhaps almost every trans woman has been dealing with the situation when the man she dates with making some awkward questions or saying some embarrassing things or just acting ignorant in certain way. Some people would say that\u00a0dating transgender women demand special treatment for themselves, but let's be honest, we all try to be nice and polite meeting other people. So why do some men forget about their manners approaching to transgender women?<span id=\"more-30\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Here are few simple rules just to keep in mind.. and hey, they are not such strict! No more strict than when you say flattering phrases trying to impress a cisgender girl.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-1\/#1_Do_not_call_them_%E2%80%9Ctranny%E2%80%9D_%E2%80%9Ctransgender%E2%80%9D_is_always_okay_to_refer\" >1. Do not call them \u201ctranny\u201d, \u201ctransgender\u201d is always okay to refer<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-1\/#2_Give_them_the_same_amount_of_respect_as_you_would_treat_any_cisgender_girl\" >2. Give them the same amount of respect as you would treat any cisgender girl<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-1\/#3_Most_of_them_didnt_write_a_thesis_about_gender_identity\" >3. Most of them didn&#8217;t write a thesis about gender identity<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-1\/#4_Take_an_interest_in_their_family_instead_of_their_sexual_skills\" >4. Take an interest in their family instead of their sexual skills<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-1\/#5_Avoid_asking_about_their_surgeries\" >5. Avoid asking about their surgeries<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-1\/#6_Do_ask_about_their_passion\" >6. Do ask about their passion<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Do_not_call_them_%E2%80%9Ctranny%E2%80%9D_%E2%80%9Ctransgender%E2%80%9D_is_always_okay_to_refer\"><\/span><small>1. Do not call them \u201ctranny\u201d, \u201ctransgender\u201d is always okay to refer<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It's an offensive rude slang basically used in the LGBT community sometimes as a joke, but never in respectful way.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Give_them_the_same_amount_of_respect_as_you_would_treat_any_cisgender_girl\"><\/span><small>2. Give them the same amount of respect as you would treat any cisgender girl<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Most of the guys can be real gentlemen towards trans lady \u2013 they open the door before she walks and ask about her interests \u2013 but unfortunately, all this happens until they learn that she's trans. Then a conversation switches from \u201cWhat place would you visit next time?\u201d to \u201cSo what are your preferences in bed?\u201d This approach doesn't cause any feelings except frustration and disappointment. People need to make out that trans women are worth a real love and meaningful relationship.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Most_of_them_didnt_write_a_thesis_about_gender_identity\"><\/span><small>3. Most of them didn&#8217;t write a thesis about gender identity<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Pretty often people meeting a transgender person firmly believe they talk with an expert of trans issues. They see fit to ask about that person's viewpoint of the worldwide treatment to trans women and how they find the way to solve this problem. Well, it's normal to ask such questions if your girl is a gender studies teacher. Otherwise she has nothing to do with that. If you need more information about trans issues just \u201cgoogle it\u201d \u2013 there are lots of articles on this topic.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Take_an_interest_in_their_family_instead_of_their_sexual_skills\"><\/span><small>4. Take an interest in their family instead of their sexual skills<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Some girls would find such topic sensitive and touchy especially if their family wasn't supportive to them. Others which family reacted to their transition with understanding and encouragement would willingly share their story. In any case, touching on this topic you would show how actual and genuine your interest to that girl.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Avoid_asking_about_their_surgeries\"><\/span><small>5. Avoid asking about their surgeries<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It's her own right and decision to tell you if her breasts are implants or grown due to hormones. Really, is that important to know if she looks so charming and attractive? Just relax! She will tell you when she will feel comfortable to speak frankly about this subject.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Do_ask_about_their_passion\"><\/span><small>6. Do ask about their passion<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>One more comfy and relaxed topic to make an easy going conversation is hobbies. Any person is ready to talk during hours about things making their soul happy. Plus it's a none-gender related subject that will get you more in tune with trans girl!<\/p>\n<p>Well, now you know few things that you would better too talk and what better to skip talking in any case. Give a look also at <a data-wpil=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com#TRPLINKPROCESSED\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">TS dating<\/a>\u00a0to try out our advices on practice. And don't forget about next part of\u00a0transgender dating tips\u00a0coming out soon!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>erhaps almost every trans woman has been dealing with the situation when the man she dates with making some awkward questions or saying some embarrassing things or just acting ignorant in certain way. Perhaps almost every trans woman has been dealing with the situation when the man she dates with making some awkward questions or<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7556,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"%%post_title%% | My Transgender Cupid Blogs","_seopress_titles_desc":"Curious about dating a transgender woman? 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