{"id":7577,"date":"2016-09-16T15:55:00","date_gmt":"2016-09-16T15:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blogs\/?p=7577"},"modified":"2023-06-29T21:43:24","modified_gmt":"2023-06-29T21:43:24","slug":"principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Principles of dating a Trans-woman (Part 2)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span class=\"su-dropcap su-dropcap-style-simple\" style=\"font-size:2.5em\">S<\/span>o, you have been reading part 1 of the 13 basic\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-1\/\">principles of dating a transgender woman<\/a>\u00a0and now we are back with the second part of basic rules on how to\u00a0<a data-wpil=\"url\" data-wpil=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com#TRPLINKPROCESSED\/\">TS dating<\/a> works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Again, these rules don't drive anybody into the rigid framework. We just give some little tips to make your dating experience nice and successful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-2\/#7_Avoid_asking_her_oldreal_name\" >7. Avoid asking her old\/real name<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-2\/#8_Ask_what_her_plans_for_the_future\" >8. Ask what her plans for the future<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-2\/#9_%E2%80%9CPassable%E2%80%9D_or_%E2%80%9Cfeminine%E2%80%9D_are_not_compliments\" >9. \u201cPassable\u201d or \u201cfeminine\u201d are not compliments<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-2\/#10_Make_compliment_her_general_look_as_a_woman\" >10. Make compliment her general look as a woman<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-2\/#11_Do_not_ask_them_if_they_ever_worked_in_the_sex_industry\" >11. Do not ask them if they ever worked in the sex industry<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-2\/#12_She_is_not_a_fetish\" >12. She is not a fetish<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/principles-of-dating-a-transgender-woman-part-2\/#13_Think_also_about_cisgender_women\" >13. Think also about cisgender women<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Avoid_asking_her_oldreal_name\"><\/span><small>7. Avoid asking her old\/real name<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even if you're very curious to know the name given to her at birth, it's not a good idea to ask about it. Just accept the fact that her second name is still her real name and everybody has a right to take another name if they are dissatisfied with the choice of their parents. At the same time, phrases kind as \u201cI'm trying to know you better\u201d is not an explanation for such a question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_Ask_what_her_plans_for_the_future\"><\/span><small>8. Ask what her plans for the future<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most of the girls set big goals and see no obstacles to reaching them. Some of them seek to achieve an increase in the corporate ladder. Another dream is to travel all over the world. These are the things that most accurately describe them and that they want to discuss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_%E2%80%9CPassable%E2%80%9D_or_%E2%80%9Cfeminine%E2%80%9D_are_not_compliments\"><\/span><small>9. \u201cPassable\u201d or \u201cfeminine\u201d are not compliments<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want to say something nice and pleasant, avoid complimenting how successfully they passed a gender transition. It's long and requires lots of efforts process which they did for themselves first of all and therefore they don't need anybody's approval.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10_Make_compliment_her_general_look_as_a_woman\"><\/span><small>10. Make compliment her general look as a woman<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYou look absolutely gorgeous today\u201d is perfectly suited as a compliment. You would nobody hurt also saying: \u201cYour hair looks amazing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"11_Do_not_ask_them_if_they_ever_worked_in_the_sex_industry\"><\/span><small>11. Do not ask them if they ever worked in the sex industry<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It's a pretty private topic which is better not to touch until the girl is ready to discuss it. Most people don't know how it's hard to be transgender and what obstacles trans girls face searching for a decent job. However, not all girls step on this path \u2013 they also go college and afterward can be financially supported by their families until they find a regular job. In any case, asking about such things your words may sound offensive and stereotyping towards the girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"12_She_is_not_a_fetish\"><\/span><small>12. She is not a fetish<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you saw some wild sexy stuff in porn and now you think that you love trans girls then you came to the wrong conclusion. Because you are mistaken if you think that they will make all those things you've seen and liked in that video. Don't make from trans girl an object of your desires or fetish, in other words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"13_Think_also_about_cisgender_women\"><\/span><small>13. Think also about cisgender women<\/small><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The easiest way to know if are you moving in the right direction with the trans woman, is simply thinking first: \u201cWould I act the same towards a cisgender woman?\u201d or \u201cWould I ask a cisgender woman such things?\u201d If the answer to these questions is \u201cNo\u201d, then just don't do that. Transgender women deserve the same amount of respect and acceptance as any other people in the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We hope this advice were helpful to you and in case you were wondering where could you\u00a0find a trans girlfriend, then just join\u00a0<a data-wpil=\"url\" data-wpil=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/account\/register#TRPLINKPROCESSED\">MyTransgenderCupid<\/a>\u00a0right now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>o, you have been reading part 1 of the 13 basic\u00a0principles of dating a transgender woman\u00a0and now we are back with the second part of basic rules on how to\u00a0TS dating works. Again, these rules don&#8217;t drive anybody into the rigid framework. 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