{"id":7679,"date":"2019-02-01T17:39:00","date_gmt":"2019-02-01T17:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blogs\/?p=7679"},"modified":"2023-06-29T21:43:15","modified_gmt":"2023-06-29T21:43:15","slug":"transgender-woman-getting-ready-to-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/transgender-woman-getting-ready-to-date\/","title":{"rendered":"Trans-woman getting ready to date"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span class=\"su-dropcap su-dropcap-style-simple\" style=\"font-size:2.5em\">I<\/span>\u2019ve been a member of, and actively using,&nbsp;<strong>MyTransgenderCupid&nbsp;<\/strong>for just on there months now. My aim is to find the man of my dreams, just like any other Trans or genetic woman wants to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019ve had so many replies to my inbox about my profile that I\u2019ve almost lost count. Some really lovely men have replied to me and we\u2019ve engaged in some great conversations. There are a few men who really appeal and I think could be the sort of man I might well have a long-term relationship with. The only real issue for me is that I always promised myself that, until I had gender confirmation surgery, I would not date. As I write this, I\u2019m just a week away from my surgery and can hardly wait. After all, I have been waiting for 22 years (since I the day I was born) for such a date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why then, you might ask, did you join&nbsp;<strong>MyTransgenderCupid<\/strong>&nbsp;before you were really ready to date? Well, let me explain a little.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/transgender-woman-getting-ready-to-date\/#Transgender_women_in_small_towns\" >Transgender women in small towns<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/transgender-woman-getting-ready-to-date\/#Relationships_with_Transgender_women\" >Relationships with Transgender women<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/blog\/transgender-woman-getting-ready-to-date\/#Goals_of_a_T-girl\" >Goals of a T-girl<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Transgender_women_in_small_towns\"><\/span><strong>Transgender women in small towns<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My name is Samantha and I live a fairly small town in the center of England. Finding a man locally who wants to date a Trans woman will be almost impossible. The town is just too small and many people know each other\u2014and all of their supposedly private business. You also have some small-town prejudices and gossip to contend with. So, the pragmatist in me knows that when I find a man able to accept a Transgender woman as his girlfriend, he will probably live in\u00a0<a data-wpil=\"url\" data-wpil-url-old=\"aHR0cHM6Ly9teXRyYW5zZ2VuZGVyY3VwaWQuY29tL3RyYW5zLWRhdGluZy1sb25kb24=\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/trans-dating-england\/london\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">London<\/a>\u00a0or\u00a0<a data-wpil=\"url\" data-wpil-url-old=\"aHR0cHM6Ly9teXRyYW5zZ2VuZGVyY3VwaWQuY29tL3RyYW5zZ2VuZGVyLWRhdGluZy11bml0ZWQta2luZ2RvbS9iaXJtaW5naGFtI1RSUExJTktQUk9DRVNTRUQ=\" data-wpil=\"url\" data-wpil-url-old=\"aHR0cHM6Ly9teXRyYW5zZ2VuZGVyY3VwaWQuY29tL3RyYW5zLWRhdGluZy11bml0ZWQta2luZ2RvbS9iaXJtaW5naGFt\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/trans-dating-england\/west-midlands\/birmingham\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Birmingham<\/a>\u00a0or\u00a0<a data-wpil=\"url\" data-wpil-url-old=\"aHR0cHM6Ly9teXRyYW5zZ2VuZGVyY3VwaWQuY29tL3RyYW5zZ2VuZGVyLWRhdGluZy11bml0ZWQta2luZ2RvbS9tYW5jaGVzdGVyI1RSUExJTktQUk9DRVNTRUQ=\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/trans-dating-england\/north-west\/manchester\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Manchester<\/a>. These are just three of the larger cities in the UK. Such cities are much more diverse and the populations are generally more tolerant of people who are different. Manchester, for example, is the so-called capital of gay life in the UK and London is, well, just London, where almost anything goes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I also wanted to join\u00a0<strong>MyTransgenderCupid<\/strong>\u00a0now so that I can really get to know the man I eventually will arrange to meet in person. It\u2019s a bit like \u201cregular dating\u201d used to be in the not-too-distant past. Then, a boy would meet a girl and they\u2019d get to know each other, and learn about each other\u2019s likes and dislikes, their hobbies and interests. Find out about each other\u2019s personalities and what makes the happy, and what makes them sad. And how it would if they were in a long-term relationship, how would they manage and are they really right for each other? Oh\u2026, and of course, all this before jumping into bed with one another and putting sex to the forefront of their relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Relationships_with_Transgender_women\"><\/span><strong>Relationships with Transgender women<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In my opinion, relationships are no different between a Transgender woman and a man and a genetic woman and a man. Sure, we T-girls might have an extra body part at birth and don\u2019t have natural breasts but, hey, that\u2019s why we have corrective surgeries. Believe me, we are women in all other aspects, especially emotionally!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One major difference for most\u00a0<a data-wpil=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com\/meet-transwomen#TRPLINKPROCESSED\">Trans girls dating<\/a>\u00a0is that we like to do this initially from behind a keyboard. It\u2019s much better than hanging around clubs and bars and the like hoping to meet a nice, genuine man. Meeting in such places is also more of a problem, as I said when you live in a small town and there really are no places to go where you can be anonymous!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dating from home also makes me feel more secure. In reality, this is because you have no idea how a man you meet in public will react once he finds out you are Trans. Some of my friends have been shouted at, verbally abused and one or two punched or worse. All for simply telling a man she has recently met that she is Transgender. One of the really great things about\u00a0<a data-wpil=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com#TRPLINKPROCESSED\/\">Trans dating<\/a> sites\u00a0is that all the men on them know we are T-girls. So, no room for any misunderstanding there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And finally, the other reason I like to talk to men and get to know them well even before I am ready to date is to try to sift out the fetishists from men who genuinely love Trans women. Not that there is anything wrong with fetishists, but they are not quite the type of man I\u2019m looking for. Fetishes about T-girls can come in many forms. There are the men who objectives Transgender women and see them as \u201cexotic\u201d or a \u201cchallenge\u201d. Men who are looking to try a \u201cchick with a dick\u201d to see what it\u2019s like. Or men who enjoy anal sex (recipient or giver) but say they don\u2019t identify as gay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Goals_of_a_T-girl\"><\/span><strong>Goals of a T-girl<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I know that when I have had my final confirmation surgery and have a vagina, I will be all woman. I want a man who can recognize me and love me for this. I will give him love back and make sure he is happy. By this, I mean mentally and physically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have a good degree from a good University so can provide mental stimulus as required. Plus, I must admit, am longing to have sexual relations with the man I love, to give him (and me) the physical stimulus we all need!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, if you see my profile on the <a data-wpil=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgendercupid.com#TRPLINKPROCESSED\/\">TS Dating site<\/a>&nbsp;<strong>MyTransgenderCupid<\/strong>&nbsp;get in touch, I\u2019d love to chat\u2026.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2019ve been a member of, and actively using,&nbsp;MyTransgenderCupid&nbsp;for just on there months now. My aim is to find the man of my dreams, just like any other Trans or genetic woman wants to do. I\u2019ve had so many replies to my inbox about my profile that I\u2019ve almost lost count. 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