Cebu City — A Cebu City plan, not an island-wide promise
Start with the city and one landmark. If you both enjoy heritage, check Fort San Pedro's visiting arrangements and leave room to choose a shorter conversation instead.
Cebu City: Keep the first invitation within its agreed scope
A Cebu City match should not have to accept an island tour to accept a conversation. On MTC, distinguish an interest in Fort San Pedro from a plan to travel further together. Tell someone whether you are based in the city or visiting, without pretending that a short stay is a long-term local routine. An honest timescale gives them something real to respond to.