My Transgender Cupid

Transgender Dating for Trans Women & Respectful Partners

MYTRANSGENDERCUPID / Website + Android

How MyTransgenderCupid works

A little hello. A real possibility.

Wondering how MyTransgenderCupid works? Start with you: the things you love, the connection you hope for and the pace that feels right. Make a profile, discover someone who catches your attention and give a conversation room to grow. Here is what to expect on our website and Android app, including what is free and which choices have conditions.

Open a little note

You do not have to write your whole future in a first message. A little curiosity, a shared interest, a kind hello: sometimes that is enough for a beginning.

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Your MTC profile: a little more you

Your MTC profile gives someone a glimpse of the person behind the portrait. Share your interests, your personality and what you hope to find, whether that is friendship or a relationship. A thoughtful introduction is more useful than trying to sound perfect.

Registration is free for adults aged 18 and over. Follow the steps on your screen, use an email address you can access and complete any email-confirmation step. Add your own recent photos. Optional My Story questions can help you describe the little things you would love to share with someone; new or changed answers are reviewed before publication.

  1. Open your account menu and choose Edit profile. Add your introduction and interests, then save your changes.
  2. In the Android app, open My Page to find your profile and edit the details you want to share.
Android · optional profile questions
Android · optional profile questions
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Profile approval and photo verification: different steps

Profile approval and photo verification do different jobs. A profile or photo can need moderator approval, while photo verification is a separate submission with instructions in your account. Uploading something does not mean it has already been approved.

For trans women, free reading and sending of messages requires an approved profile photo and approved photo verification. Check your account status and follow any request for a correction. Review times vary; we do not promise an approval deadline. Checks help support the community, but cannot guarantee someone’s identity, intentions or safety.

Your profile
Profile approval and photo verification
Messages
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Discover people on MTC, beyond a first impression

Discover people on MTC through profiles and the preferences that matter to you. On the website, search can include country, age and relationship preferences. In Android Discover, For you, Online now and New here offer different starting points, with search filters nearby.

Read a little before deciding how to introduce yourself. Interests and personal answers can give you something real to ask about. A like shows interest, a favorite helps you find a profile again, and a friend request still needs acceptance. None of those actions unlocks messaging. Search results and online status do not guarantee availability, compatibility or a reply.

  1. On the website, open Search, choose your preferences and apply the filters. Open a profile to read more.
  2. On Android, open Discover. Choose For you, Online now or New here, or open the filter controls to narrow your search.
Website · country and relationship preferences
Website · country and relationship preferences
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MTC messaging: make room for a real hello

MTC messaging gives you a place to get to know someone without immediately exchanging a phone number. Trans women can read and send messages free after the required profile-photo and photo-verification approvals. Men can register and browse free, then use conversation access using credits, when the account meets the requirements or choose Premium for messaging.

Start with a detail the person chose to share: a favourite song, an interest, a hope for the weekend. There is no need to turn an introduction into an interview. You do not need a mutual swipe-match to explore a conversation, but account eligibility, contact restrictions and blocking still apply. A membership or unlock never creates an obligation to reply.

  1. Open Inbox on the website to find your conversations. Use the contact search or the Active, Your turn and Waiting tabs to find the thread you want.
  2. Open a conversation and check its access message. When replying is available, write in the message field and use the send button.
Website · message search and conversation tabs
Website · message search and conversation tabs

Free after approval

Trans women can read and send after profile-photo and photo-verification approval.

One conversation

Eligible accounts can unlock a single chat for the stated period. Other chats stay separate.

Premium access

Choose a messaging membership instead. Check included benefits and purchase terms; Visibility boosts are separate.

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Conversation credits and Premium: choose your pace

Conversation credits let eligible non-Premium accounts unlock one conversation. The current option uses five credits for 24 hours of reading and sending messages with that member, with no extra credit charge per message during those 24 hours. The 24 hours begin when you confirm the unlock.

Your profile must meet the requirements shown before activation; the current unlock requires at least 50% profile completion and an eligible account. Already released messages remain readable afterwards. New messages after expiry may need another unlock. A membership is the other option, with its own benefits. Website fixed-term plans and Google Play subscriptions have different purchase and renewal terms: check the total price and renewal terms before paying.

  1. Open the conversation you want to access. If an unlock option is available, check the amount, access period and profile requirements before confirming.
  2. Prefer a membership? Open the upgrade options and compare the total price, included access and renewal terms before paying.
Android · login streak and conversation access
Android · login streak and conversation access
5 credits1 conversation24 hours
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Earn credits through small, meaningful steps

Earn credits by completing eligible milestones in your account. A three-day login streak currently earns five credits. A 100% complete profile and approved photo verification each earn five once; three approved profile photos earn three once. Five different active days in a week earn three more.

One-time milestones are awarded once across the website and Android app. Calendar days and Monday-to-Sunday weeks follow Amsterdam time. Miss a streak day and the next visit starts day one again. Inviting a friend can earn ten credits after that person has approved photo verification, a 100% profile and three active days. Check the progress shown in your account. Activity points and levels are not your spendable credit balance.

Website · credit milestones; example progress
Website · credit milestones; example progress
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Spotlight: a little extra presence, on your terms

Spotlight is an optional way to use credits for additional profile visibility, separate from Premium and conversation unlocks. Open the offer to see your account’s current cost, duration and eligibility before confirming. The web offer checked for this guide showed ten credits for 24 hours; your current screen is decisive.

An approved profile photo and an eligible, active account are needed. Boosted profiles carry a Spotlight label; Recently active is a different label and does not mean a paid boost. Placement rotates among relevant members. Extra visibility cannot guarantee views, likes, matches or messages, so begin with a profile that feels like you rather than expecting a boost to do the connecting.

  1. Open your balance page or the Spotlight area on My Page in the app. Review the offer before choosing to activate it.
  2. Check the displayed price and duration. Activation spends credits; simply opening the offer does not mean you have started a boost.
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Timeline and moments beyond the profile

Timeline can offer another glimpse of the MTC community through member activity. The website shows activities such as profile updates, while the Android photo and video feed is for browsing shared media. The screens have different purposes and controls.

A shared interest or a new photo can give you something to ask about. Open a profile to learn more before starting a conversation. In privacy settings, the supported activity switches let members with the required membership choose what may appear on their own page and in the global feed. Turning a switch off does not make the whole account invisible.

  1. Use the activity feed in the website navigation to see member activity. The Android photo and video feed is a separate browsing screen.
  2. On Android, open Settings and Privacy settings to find the Your Timeline controls. Locked controls show that the option requires a membership.
Android · privacy settings and activity controls
Android · privacy settings and activity controls
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Your privacy and account controls, close at hand

Your privacy and account controls help you choose what to share and how to sign in. Website settings offer passkeys on supported browsers and devices, using a fingerprint, face or device PIN prompt. Your password remains another sign-in option; a password reset revokes existing MTC passkeys.

These sign-in instructions apply to the website. Premium location privacy can hide your city name while your country remains visible; search filters and distance can still offer location clues. Blocking, reporting and support are there when something feels wrong. Avoid sending money to someone you have only met online, and take time before sharing contact details or planning a public first meeting.

  1. On the website, open your account settings and find the passkey section. Follow the browser and device prompts if you choose to add one.
  2. For unwanted contact, open the member or conversation options and choose the block or report action. Use the help centre if you need assistance.
Website · passkey settings on supported devices
Website · passkey settings on supported devices
MTC / Q & A

Your questions, answered

Can I use the same account on the website and Android?

Yes. Sign in to the website and official Android app with the same MTC account. You do not need to create another account. One-time rewards are awarded once per account, regardless of which device you use.

Is there an iPhone app?

Use the MTC website in your browser on iPhone or iPad. For Android, follow the official Google Play link on this page. Downloading the app is free; optional purchases and messaging conditions remain separate.

Do trans women need Premium to message?

No paid messaging plan is required after approval of the profile photo and photo verification. Other account requirements still apply, and optional credit features such as Spotlight are separate.

Can men message without Premium?

Eligible accounts can use conversation credits. The current unlock is five credits for one conversation for 24 hours, under the account and profile requirements shown before confirmation.

Does Spotlight include messages or guarantee a match?

No. Spotlight is an optional visibility feature. Messaging access follows its own conditions, and nobody can guarantee another member’s interest or a relationship.

What happens when my conversation unlock ends?

Messages already released stay readable. New messages after the access window ends may require another unlock. The timer starts at activation, not at your first reply.

Your next chapter starts with a hello.

Your pace. Your choice. Your story.