Free trans dating. More room for a first hello.

Free messaging for verified trans women becomes available after an approved profile photo and an approved photo verification. Upload your own recent portrait and follow the verification instructions shown in your account. Our moderators review the submission; sending a photo does not mean it has already been approved.

Once the required approvals are in place, you can read and send messages without a paid messaging membership. Optional credit features such as Spotlight remain separate. You can see your current verification status in your account.

Earn free credits by completing the milestones shown on your Credits page. These include profile completion, approved verification, approved photos and eligible activity rewards. A three-day login streak currently earns five credits. Each calendar day counts once across the website and app, using Amsterdam time.

Other rewards have their own conditions: inviting someone, for example, requires more than sending an invitation. Check the progress and requirements in your account. One-time milestones are awarded once, even if you use both devices.

Conversation credits let eligible non-Premium accounts unlock one conversation. The current offer uses five credits for 24 hours of reading and sending messages with that member, with no extra credit charge for each message during that window. Review the eligibility requirements before confirming.

The clock starts when you unlock. Messages already released stay readable afterwards; new messages after the window ends may need a new unlock. This is access to one conversation, rather than unlimited messaging with every member.

Free registration lets you create a profile and explore before choosing a paid membership. For men who want ongoing messaging access, Premium is another option alongside eligible conversation unlocks. Compare the features and payment terms displayed for your account rather than assuming a credit purchase is a membership.

Spotlight is a separate credit feature for additional profile visibility. Neither a boost nor a membership guarantees a reply or a relationship. Choose what fits your pace and budget; there is no need to rush a decision.

Respectful trans dating works best when a first message notices the person: a shared interest, a favourite activity, or something they have chosen to tell you. Share your intentions, give someone room to reply and accept a no without debate.

Photo verification and moderation can help, but cannot guarantee identity or intentions. Keep financial details private, avoid sending money to someone you have only met online, and use block or report if a conversation feels wrong.