Messages

Start a conversation

Open a member’s profile and choose Message.
Write your message in the conversation screen and use Send.
If an unlock or access prompt appears, read it before spending credits or choosing a plan.

Message and heart buttons are separate actions.

Find messages and check access

Use Inbox in the top navigation to reopen conversations. Trans women need approved profile-photo and photo verification for free messaging; men can use eligible conversation credits or Premium. Read any access message shown.

Use Filter to find unread, favorite, later or archived conversations. — MyTransgenderCupid — Use Filter to find unread, favorite, later or archived conversations.

Archive a conversation or stop contact

Use Archive conversation in the conversation options to move a chat out of your active list. Find it again under Archive. Unread and Your turn help you find conversations needing attention. Archiving does not block a member; use Block or Report for unwanted contact.

Conversation options include a reminder, Archive, Favorite and Delete. — MyTransgenderCupid — Conversation options include a reminder, Archive, Favorite and Delete.

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