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Messaging

Messages

Learn how to send messages from a profile or from search results, and how to delete conversations from your inbox.

Send from profile Quick message from search Delete conversations

Quick actions

Tip: A short, specific first message usually gets better replies than a generic opener.

Send messages

You can message someone from their profile, or send a quick message directly from search.

Option 1

Message from a profile

  1. Open the profile you want to message.
  2. Scroll to the message area on the profile page.
  3. Tap inside the message field and write your message.
  4. Press Send.
Message box on a profile Send button in the message area

Where to find your messages

All messages you send and receive are stored in your inbox. If you don’t see a reply right away, give it time and keep your messages respectful and specific.

If you can’t send a message

  • Make sure you’re signed in
  • Check if your account has the required access
  • Try again after refreshing the page

Delete conversations

Keep your inbox tidy by removing conversations you no longer want to keep.

How to delete a conversation

  1. Open your Inbox.
  2. Hover or tap on the conversation you want to remove.
  3. Select the trash icon and confirm.
Inbox button Trash icon appears to delete a conversation Confirm delete conversation dialog

Good to know

  • Deleting a conversation removes it from your inbox view
  • If you want to stop contact, consider blocking the member
  • If something feels unsafe, report the member first

If you’re deleting due to harassment or scam attempts, report first so patterns can be reviewed.

Use the Inbox option in the top navigation after you sign in. That’s where all your conversations live.

Try hovering over the conversation (desktop) or tapping the conversation options (mobile). If it still doesn’t appear, refresh the page and try again.

Delete is mainly for inbox cleanup. If someone is disrespectful, pressuring, or unsafe, blocking is the better option. If it’s harassment, scams, or explicit content, report first.