Show interest
Use “Show interest” to send a clear, low-pressure signal. It’s a simple way to say “I’d like to connect” before you start a conversation.
Quick actions
Tip: After you send interest, a short friendly message often gets the best response.
What “interest” does
- Sends a like-style signal to that member
- Helps you stand out without writing a message yet
- Creates a simple starting point for a chat
Where to see it
- Your sent interests
- Interests you received
- All activity on the Likes page
Step-by-step: send interest
You can do this directly from any member profile.
Open a profile
Visit the profile of the person you’re interested in. Near the top of the profile you’ll see action buttons.
Tap “Show interest”
Click the “Show interest” button. Your interest is sent immediately and the button updates so you can see it worked.
What to do after you send interest
If you want to increase your chance of a reply, follow up with a short message.
- Keep it friendly and specific (mention one detail from their profile)
- Ask one simple question
- Stay respectful and low-pressure
Good to know
- You’ll see “Interest sent” after tapping the button
- Interests are meant to be simple signals
- If you change your mind, use Favorites or move on
FAQ: show interest
Short answers about how likes work on the site.
You can find all interests you’ve sent and received on the Likes page. It helps you keep track of your recent activity and new reactions.
That’s a confirmation state. It shows your interest was sent successfully, and prevents accidental repeat taps.
Often yes. “Show interest” is a great opener, and a short message can add context and make it easier for someone to reply.
If you’re not signed in, you may not see all actions. Sign in and open the member’s profile to access the full set of profile buttons.