Improve your profile on a TS dating site
You created a profile on a dating site hoping for a date or perhaps a relationship for life. But after a week, hardly any people have shown interest in you or sent you an email or chat. The alarm bells may ring now. Not that there is anything wrong with you, but with your profile. Grab your profile and do the check-up below.
How do I get attention on a dating site?
You created a profile on a dating site hoping for a date or perhaps a relationship for life. But after a week, hardly any people have shown interest in you or sent you an email or chat. The alarm bells may ring now. Not that there is anything wrong with you, but with your profile. Grab your profile and do the check-up below.
1TS Dating tip: What about your nickname (username)?
What is the name of your profile? Don't underestimate its impact! It's the first thing someone sees and can be interesting or funny and make you curious about that person. But it can also have the opposite effect. Someone who calls himself "loser123" or "misterloverlover" gives a certain impression, even though it may be meant as a joke.
Our tips: avoid nicknames that seem to be some kind of computer language or password by a combination of numbers, letters, capitals, dashes and punctuation that mean nothing (and cannot be remembered). FrEd_Amsterdam_295 or choOoocolaAaaatje_912 for example. Do not.
Go crazy and think off the beaten track. Find a name that stands out, for example by using a pun or joke (for example, "girl_with_a_list") or that says something about you, your life, or your interests (for example, "IloveHarryPotter") or that makes others curious about its meaning ( like 'aboriginal guy'). Do something different than usual and make something of it!
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2TS dating tip: Change your photo
When browsing the TS dating profiles, many people choose the "search by photo" option. If your photo is nice, chances are they will look further at your profile. So most likely there is something wrong with your photo. But there is something you can do about it!
Above all, leave your grumpy, boring, dull photo in the attic box. Just like those photos where you are just a resident of the Bijlmer prison or rehab. Nice for "later". It is also not posh and raunchy and hand in hand with your ex (whether or not cut off). A photo of someone else just to make an impression is not a good plan either.
What is it? Happy, spontaneous photos of you, for example on vacation. A simple, real photo that shows what you look like, who you are and what you like to do. A beautiful and preferably pure smile works best!
3TS Dating tip: Check all other parts of your profile
Too long-winded profile text or too little or even no text at all. Too heavy information or too standard. If you have a good photo, then the profile text can still scare and scare people away.
Keep the texts on your profile a little terse and try to be original and funny. Stories of two A4 pages, "I love watching TV and sitting on the couch" texts and lamentations are also not done. The goal is to grab someone's interest in a short time. Fast, because before you know it he or she will look further if your text is not nice enough. Keep it short and concrete. For example, don't say you like movies, but say which movies you like, which actors and perhaps which director. Be positive and tell the nice things about you. That you are tired of being single, finally want to enjoy life together, that you are quite lonely or afraid that you will be hurt again; these are not things to emphasize. Unless you want to scare everyone away. Originality always scores. Do not hesitate to be a bit quirky. If someone laughs at you, you already have him or her half in the pocket