Choose a setting and an approach that feel manageable. A dating photograph should introduce you, not demand a performance from you.
Dating photo confidence can begin away from the camera
Dating photo confidence can begin with the choices you make before anyone takes a picture. Think about where you feel comfortable, whether you would prefer to take it yourself and how much time you want to give the task.
You might enjoy asking a trusted friend, or you may prefer a quiet afternoon on your own. There is no need to turn it into a big event. A few ordinary pictures can be enough to give you something to choose from.
A relaxed profile photograph starts with a setting you enjoy
A relaxed profile photograph can happen somewhere familiar, with enough light to see your face clearly. A simple background may make it easier to focus on the person rather than everything around them.
Wear something that feels like you. Makeup, a favourite jacket or an accessory can express your style. On MyTransgenderCupid, however, your face must stay clearly visible in every photo. A hat, sunglasses or any other item must not conceal it; a photo that hides your face is not allowed as an additional picture either.
You do not have to feel completely fearless to let someone see you.
Give yourself time before choosing a dating picture
Choosing a dating picture can feel different after you have put the camera away. Look again when you are not thinking about every small movement you made while taking it.
You can ask which picture looks recognisably like you instead of which one makes you look perfect. If somebody else is helping, let them know the kind of photograph you want and keep the final choice your own.
- Choose an image that reflects how you look now.
- Look at the whole introduction rather than one detail you dislike.
- Keep only the pictures you are comfortable sharing.
Natural dating photos can still have personality
Natural dating photos can still show personality. A laugh, a favourite place or a small moment while doing something you enjoy may feel more familiar than a pose you have been trying to copy.
There is no need to remove all effort, style or playfulness. The aim is a picture that resembles you and that you can enjoy having on your profile. A little character can give someone a lovely reason to ask a question.
Let a profile picture be an introduction, not a judgement
A profile picture is an introduction, not a judgement about how much attention or affection you deserve. You can choose a clear photograph for MyTransgenderCupid and still have days when being photographed feels awkward.
Your words, humour and way of listening become part of the introduction too. Let the picture open the door, then give a conversation the chance to reveal the person beyond it.
Before you go
A few questions
What if I feel awkward when someone takes my photo?
You can choose a familiar setting, work with someone you trust or take the picture yourself. Keep the task small and give yourself time to decide which images you want to share.
Do I have to change my style for a dating picture?
No. Choose a clear image that resembles you. Your clothes, makeup and personal style can be part of that introduction without being changed to fit someone else's idea of a good photograph.
A little more yourself.
A little more open to what comes next.
