Block, report, move on: tools that help
Pick a public place, keep it time-boxed, use your own transport, tell a friend, and review our dating safety tips.
To stay in control, keep personal details gradual and watch for money requests, travel fees, or gift-card stories; in Mishawaka, keep early plans around central areas and main shopping areas rather than private spots.
If someone pressures you to move off-platform fast, pushes boundaries, or turns the chat into guilt or urgency, step back; use block and report tools and prioritize your comfort over “being polite.”
Do
- Share personal details gradually and keep early chats simple.
- Keep first meets public-first and short by design.
- Trust discomfort and pause when something feels off.
- Confirm the plan clearly (time, place, and exit point).
- Use in-app tools to block or report when needed.
- Keep screenshots if someone becomes pushy or manipulative.
Don’t
- Send money, gift cards, or “travel help,” for any reason.
- Accept off-platform pressure as normal early on.
- Share your home address or private details too fast.
- Let guilt, urgency, or flattery push your boundaries.
- Ignore repeated inconsistencies in their story.
- Stay in a chat that turns disrespectful — exit and move on.